You want freedom. And why not?

First things first, you need to stop wasting 


A big, bold life & biz can be yours…

you’ve got this.

Wanna know how?



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Have you ever asked yourself any of these questions…maybe even at 2 a.m. in the morning?

  • I’m afraid to let my foot off the gas pedal…because what if it all falls apart?
  • I have so many great things in my life, when I am truly going to embrace this success? It feels like I’m wasting all the good by feeling guilty about it.
  • They say work harder…but I already am working HARD! Why isn’t it paying off?

Maybe you say things like this in your head:

  • I should be able to figure this out on my own, I don’t like asking for help.
  • Everyone keeps telling me how successful I am, but I don’t feel like it because I work all the time.
  • My biz/job/career/life isn’t fun anymore and that scares the sh*t out of me, because what else am I going to do?
  • No one seems to get it…I feel restless! Not because I hate my life but because I LOVE LIFE & WANT MORE FREE TIME.
  • What are “they” (your mom, sister, lover, friend, boss, clients, internet…fill in the blank) going to say if I GO FOR IT!!
  • I’m tired. I am a little resentful, and I don’t want to be.

Together we can say good bye to the freaking negative Nelly voices in your head who wake you up at 2 in the morning, figure out what’s keeping you from loving every minute of your life, having all the time, money and emotional freedom you want and maybe, just maybe you will come to see, your life is pretty f’ing amazing. And you are ready to do the work to own that fact.

I believe in you, Gorgeous, more than you will ever know!

Here’s to your very own BIG, BOLD LIFE & BIZ,


You are ready to do whatever the hell you want, right?

The only thing stopping you is this….you have to get your shit together already. Maybe you have it together in many, many places in your life…but if you had it ALL together you wouldn’t be here right now wanting to learn more about how to get your shit together, right?

You really want to have the time to do what you want, or maybe you really want to stop wasting time…that’s really it isn’t it? Wasting time.

Oh God, say it out loud…”I, (insert name) have been wasting time and damn it I AM READY TO STOP IT!!”

(The GUILT of KNOWING you are wasting time…is excruciating isn’t it. You feel ashamed. You probably feel shocked that you are doing the same old things, staying stuck…because you don’t SEE yourself as someone who can’t figure it out…GOD, that’s shitty, too! I understand, believe me I do.)

You see, you probably know you are wasting time…dicking around the internet watching all the freaky stuff on YouTube, or maybe the cute kittens…hey, I’m not here to judge. Maybe you KNOW you should NOT keep saying yes to that b.s crap you HATE doing, but you don’t know how to say no! Or you keep doing the same ole same ole things in your biz because it has gotten you to some level of success and if you STOPPED doing those things….what could happen? Your white knuckled, clenched grasp on trying to control things is actually backfiring!

Maybe you are already super “successful” and “people” think you really have your shit together…and for the most part you DO…but


inside YOU know you are restless. You aren’t quite living like you want. Maybe because you are not embracing all the good around you, maybe you are sabotaging your life and/or you biz because you haven’t

ALLOWED yourself to enjoy it.

Oh, there are many reasons you distract yourself from enjoying it, or not going for the really BIG dreams and goals you have. Many reasons you might keep yourself distracted from that, but right now, give yourself some grace, you know, a hug for being here!! Ready to have a breakthrough or two, and THEN learn a few how to’s…on how YOU, Gorgeous, can have your own big ass, bold life & biz.

Because the truth is…you’ve got all you need inside to make all the dreams and time and money and whatever the hell you want come true! You probably just need some support.

And really, truth be told, as good as you are at all those many things you are good at in life….you may not be great at figuring out your own b.s.

Hey, most of us can’t. And I’m here to help!

I’m Mary Bicknell, MSW and I have been coaching and consulting with women for 20+ years. As a former psychotherapist, I know what it is like to beat your head against the wall trying to get ahead, and being stuck in a system that doesn’t support it. Not to mention having a boss who is an ass, in charge of your life & your paycheck.

I started coaching/consulting because I crave FREEDOM.

Time freedom.

I believe this…we are going to be dead a long time and I want to do everything in life I long for, I yearn for…I don’t want to miss out.

And I have had huge success! I was able to create a system that increased my revenue 450% in one year! I now am DRIVEN to support other women biz owners how to get their head together, get a plan, develop systems….and implement, so that they can:

  •  live up to their potential,
  • make sh*t tons of money,
  • have all the free time to do whatever the hell they want.

Yeah, I am direct, because TIME IS LIMITED! Life is short. And I will always respect you enough to be a straight shooter, because I never want to waste your time.

You are here because something about me resonates with you. My clients say I kick them in the ass, while I give them a hug. I will always have your back, support you when you are freaking out as you grow, give you the facts and the how-to’s and never just try to be a cheerleader.

You deserve better than that. Cuz most of the time that all is bullsh*t.


You have nothing to lose by setting up a call with me. Worse case scenario, you get some of your HOW-TO’s answered. Best case scenario, I help you have a breakthrough that you want so very much. Click the appointment link right up at the top….talk with you soon.

Let’s talk. You, me & 40 minutes of answering some of those HOW-TO questions.

I’m not even able to express in words how much I get out of my sessions with you. Powerful with lots of light bulb moments.  You are such a blessing in my life and I appreciate you so much.
Working with Mary has allowed me to double my rates, become a highly  sought after speaker, build my confidence and push myself. Creating a 5 week program was a big shift for me, I learned how to not over deliver but instead provide my clients with the information they needed and then funnel them into my other packages. I made more in the first few months of the year than I had in the entire PREVIOUS YEAR.

Nikki Rausch

Sales Maven Coach,

Update: I talk about you all the time. Clarity is king! Thank you for helping me create the AUTHORity Package and tighten up my sales conversation.
We will end 2016 with nearly $500k in sales! We’re on track for $2.4 million in 2017!
The VIP DAY I had with Mary was a GAME CHANGER. Because of the clarity and new found sales confidence I gained working with Mary, it has catapulted our business. This was a long overdue, major shift that I just wasn’t getting on my own. Within the first week after developing my new product I had my first 15K week. Since then I have signed numerous clients, I am a featured speaker and have the business I have always dreamed about. We accomplished so much in just a few months. Thank you Mary so much, I can’t tell you how valuable your coaching was. I know I will make back many thousands of times my investment.
Kathy Kidd
Owner, THRIVE Business Development

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